My evolving kink…three years of the BDSM test

A play partner recently asked me to do the BDSM test for her. I expected things to be the same as it has been on previous tests, although in many ways, I should know better. After all, there have been massive changes in my life, not least that I am not a man anymore. Sometimes the obvious, well, should be obvious.

My original BDSM test. It shows me to be a rope bunny. Surprising to see how little age play mattered back then. And a more recent BDSM test of eighteen months ago.

I was curious to see how being a woman, how my life experiences, might have changed my profile. And she was curious how best to play with me. Immediately below you will see the updated results of my kink test…if you are interested in exploring the same, I suggest you head over to bdsmtest.org.

Key discoveries? More of a baby than ever! More of a slave than ever! And what hopeless chance do I have of realising my dream of being a dominatrix if it is the lowest score of all? A girl can hope. I think that’s hilarious. I’m going to have to lean into something…just not sure what.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Boy/Girl
100% Rope bunny
98% Ageplayer
96% Slave
95% Submissive
92% Pet
88% Primal (Prey)
85% Experimentalist
83% Masochist
83% Brat
71% Switch
64% Non-monogamist
45% Dominant
42% Daddy/Mommy
41% Primal (Hunter)
41% Brat tamer
39% Owner
34% Vanilla
34% Rigger
31% Exhibitionist
29% Sadist
22% Voyeur
14% Degradee
11% Degrader
4% Master/Mistress

I am tempted to plot this on a graph with my two previous sets of test results…something radical is going on. I am also pleased to see that I am still 100% rope bunny. My shibari teacher has told me that I need to find my inner domme in order to be capable of being an accomplished rigger, but that my submissive starting point is what makes me so intuitive at it.

These tests and the questions they provoke are central to the journey that I am on at the moment. Can I have a core submissive essence, as in, that is who and how I love, whilst simultaneously working as a dominant? I think so. I would not be the first.

The first woman I spanked, I told her as she stretched her naked form across my body, “I’m a slave. You’re safe. I’ll do this exactly as you want.” That suited her just fine, as she directed me through her spanking in ways that were very appealing to both of us.