Links

Readings in Kink. I have really enjoyed the writing of the various authors and bloggers listed below. They have all been “educators” to me, and if you are interested in the topic of kink, you may find these of interest. Please feel free to share other blogs you come across which stand out.

Self-Awareness Tools for the Kinky

Carnal Calibration
Uncovering the unspoken kink potential in a couple
Carnal Calibration

Kink Test
The original kinky test to help you find a questionnaire Kink Test

Guide Track
An in-depth, scientifically based test on how kinky you are
Your Kinky Survey


D/s

The Submissive Guide
A website filled with helpful information to help a submissive find her/him-self
https://www.submissiveguide.com

Silken Claws
A Domme’s Thoughts on BDSM, Lifestyle Femdom, and Everything Else
https://silkenclaws.com

Bad Girls Bible
Learn how to be submissive and have kinkier sex
https://badgirlsbible.com/

The Cage
A website dedicated to helping you meet people in the BDSM community
https://www.submissiveguide.com

Fetlife
Thought of as the “Facebook” for the kink community, a way to meet people and learn
https://www.fetlife.com

Femme-Domme Chronicles
Blog of an Australian Domme with tons of resources and insights.
https://www.domme-chronicles.com


Sexual Politics and Femdom

ALOK
De-gendering fashion is an anti-violence imperative
AlokVMenon

Briarpatch
Award-winning Canadian political e-zine. Particularly good coverage on trans issues. https://briarpatchmagazine.com/

Femdom 101
Musings on life and D/s from a Femdom couple
http://femdom101.blogspot.com

Keeping it Kinky
A Guide to BDSM and alternative sex by mistress Kashiko
https://keepingitkinky.net/bdsm/

Podopheleus
Writer and kinkster on all things Femdom and chastity
https://www.podopheleus.com

Rika’s Lair
Thoughtful musings on D/s from a lifestyle Domme
https://www.kinkweekly.com/author/ms-rika/


Blogs of Note

The Kinky World of Vile
A NSFW exploration of the world of D/s and BDSM
https://thekinkyworldofvile.wordpress.com/

ELust Sex Blog
A firm favourite for a roundup on all the kinky content available online
ELust Sex Blog

Blanche Black
Female Leadership of Men and Society
http://blancheblack.blogspot.com

True Domme
A dominant woman’s discovery of the irrelevance of men
http://truedomme.blogspot.com

Submissive Male
A wonderful blog from a submissive male into FLR
https://submissivemale.blogspot.com


Sardax
The Femdom Art of Sardax, illustrator of fantasy
http://www.sardax.com

Sex Work and Feminism

Whore d’Ouvres
An escort’s musings on life; great writing
Whore d’Ouvres

Mindful Intimacy
An escort explores the spiritual aspects of sexual connection
Exploring the Depths of Mindful Intimacy

Charli and Margeaux
Two escorts muse on life and other useful topics like how to eat pussy
Kink and Fetish


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