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  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on May 7, 2025October 7, 2025

Is being sexual a subversive act?

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Friends are the family we choose
  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on May 16, 2024May 16, 2024

Calling time on friendship.  When do we give up?

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Male gaze is an expression of male privilege
  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on April 15, 2023April 15, 2023

The nonsense of dressing for the male gaze

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  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on February 14, 2023February 17, 2023

Today is my mother’s birthday. I wonder what she would think of me now.

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  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on January 28, 2023January 29, 2023

Is oestrogen turning me into a mommy?  Oh dear, poor baby!  Sexuality once again out of control.

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  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on January 22, 2023January 27, 2023

Who is my God?  The importance of belief and how sexuality is core to spirituality.

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  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on October 17, 2022

Is my version of the midlife crisis an inevitable vagina?

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  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on July 30, 2022July 31, 2022

What makes the male gaze so slimy? To be possessed by a stare in all the wrong ways.

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  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on June 5, 2022June 5, 2022

I came out to my children. Wow. It gives me hope for the next generation

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  • by Femina Viva
  • Posted on August 20, 2021May 13, 2022

What is it like to be married to someone who is disgusted by your sexuality?

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1445.  Musings on life, work,  hypocrisy and the toxic sisterhood

1447. Realising the futility and necessity of putting ourselves in boxes

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1437. Are we all alone?  Is life just one big futile exercise for connection?

1440. Spirituality and Sexuality: Two Sides of the Same Coin?

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1443. Submission need not be weakness

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